Thinking today about follow-through and completion and how/where we put values on these things.
Why are they valuable and where do we assume they're valuable when maybe they're not?
Reasons why they've valuable:
- when they get stuff done that needs to be done (e.g. library book on shelf, bug fixed in software, dinner finished and edible!)
- finishing a thing can make us feel good.
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But we also put a lot of value on follow-through in hobbies and creative spaces.
And I think sometimes we transfer the value that comes from completing care tasks (dinner is edible! dishes are clean!) and work tasks (employer does not fire me! also I like fixing stuff!) without asking the same why!
Unfinished project? Well, did you just not vibe with it? Was it a good creative experiment but then you wanted to experiment with something else instead?
There definitely value to finishing projects, mostly to ourselves. It's awesome to see your vision realized or how it comes together in a way you didn't quite expect.
It's very important for me to make quilts for the people I love. I have two niblings born during the pandemic and I want to finish their big baby quilts and give them to them, esp since I may not meet them for a long time (vs. newborn quilts). One is already one! 😭
But especially for non-time-bound things, it's ok to let a project for someone come together over a few years. That's how life works. Or to pick up and put down.
Or to put down and know that you show them love in many other ways.
I also have a partially-finished quilt top whose design I'm not terribly into but I wanted to learn the techniques in the class that was teaching the pattern. So I won't finish it, but I may make the last few blocks at some point and I learned stuff!
@platypus still thinking about this. I value the "fail faster" approach in work: get something tested, proved, whatever, and if it isn't right, move on. But for personal protects, I don't see "abandoned" as a failure state that I can move on from; I see it as hiatus that I would resume if I were, somehow, better. This is for sure something for me to work on.
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